夫妻间常为了一些芝麻绿豆的事而闹脾气，不过时候都觉得大家都太傻。状况有很多种，有的可以弥补，有的不可以回头看，有的需要沟通，有的是非得走到最后一步。。。。。

状况一

每次在准备就寝时，她就提出要聊天，他就表示很累了
她：你对着电脑，电视，游戏机都不见你喊累？
他：就是把精力全部花完了，现在想要睡觉
她：你可以把部分精力花在我身上吗？

状况二

夫妻为了柴米油盐，酱醋茶的事而感到压力时
她：不如我们谈谈好吗？
他：这些事让我去烦就好了，你不需要担心，我会处理
她：夫妻不就是一体成型的吗？你烦就应该，我烦就活该？

Touch Wedding Studio --- Kuching

So, today I'm going to blog about my pre-wedding photo shooting studio.

At the very first, I've chose Jacky Studio (kuching) to take my shooting, but I ended up with Touch wedding studio (kuching). As we all knew, wedding studio was very cunning in b'ness, but I had predicted all the circumstanses that I'm going to meet, I think I'm "kinda" well prepared for all those.

It was very last minute to substitute Touch wedding as one, so I had no time to go through all the detail in the package. Plus one of my ex-college mate just took their wed-pic there, so I suppose shouldnt be any problem.

Everything went well until I came to choose my picture. I follow EXACTLY what was offered in the package, 21 poses for album, their staff was trying soooooo hard convincing me to add more, I was very determine to SAVE money so no adding in album BUT add a few pieces 4R photo apart from that 21 poses. I did upgrade one of my photo frame into a bigger size.

So total up I need to pay about RM500+ in additional. Everything sounds alright? Okie, so I tell them I'll clear all the remaining balance when I'm here to take my album (nothing wrong right?)

But! I was told to clear that additional RM500+ ON THE SPOT!!! Before I STEP out the door! At first, I told them I'll bankin to them once I'm back in Sibu as I diddnt bring my cheque with me + I had no enough cash for it. Okie, they insisted me to pay at least RM50 for deposit, and been telling watsoever RULES that we need to follow!!!

I was VEry pissed! Cos I knew they gave so many priviledge to my fren and I CANT enjoy any of it! I need to drive my own car to take outdoor picture cos THIS IS COMPANY RULES?!!!?!?!? I dont get it!!! NOT AT ALL!!

Okie fine, so I decided not to pay a single cts anymore until I get my album! Guees what? they told me I wasnt allowed to backout, cos they already proceed my order to add!! The actual rules they told me the other day is another version, which is : If customer didnt clear the additional, they cannot proceed.

I told them; If that's the case, I wont add any additional, I'll keep to my package! And the manager said: okie fine, so no additional!


(()(^%&%&^*&)(^&%^%&^(*(*)(%%#$@#@#@#^&*_)+

Then we came to put reservation for the actual day wedding gown, and they told me the one I selected was FULLY BOOKED in DEC, no matter how I tell them to give me that particular one, they said NOT POSSIBLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


So this is what all I get from them......I'm speechless

还是很郁卒！！！截至早上为止我还在为去古晋住哪里而烦！好在古晋亲戚多不必要花钱住外面。

每天都在等等等。。。。等拍照，在想会拍成怎样，好多东西要买，要多事情还没做，老公头发还没染，我的指甲还没彩绘，我的手臂还是一样大！



哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈

濒临奔溃！！

还有“朋友”过于表现“关心”也造成我的负担。想要对“她”说声:谢谢关心，下次不见！！

哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈

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I LOST MY BLOG DUE TO DISCONNECTION OF INTERNET!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AND IT WAS UNSAVED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!




Let me start ALLLLL over again......


I havent slept well for 3 days, officially since the day I decided to replace Jacky studio to Wedding Touch studio for my pre-wedding shooting.

By comparing both package offered at same pricing, Wedding Touch is definitely more worth it de lor


Since beginning of year, I was trying to lose some weights for the shooting, but i ended "maintaining" my overly heavy weights really well lo!!!!! I think this is ONE of the reason that I couldnt sleep well and dreamt of. So I deccided to confront to my husband what I'm thinking and fret about, the conversation start like this.....


me:"people tell me must lose some weights if not wouldnt look good in white gown"
him:"aiya...why you always fret over small matter? "
me:" I'm only in charge these matter right? You fret over money, and that's not my worry!! I was TOLD by YOU do not worry about money, why you complained?"

!!@$$&$%^%%^*&*&($@!*%$#%^*u%e*&*^$^*&^%

The conversation ended as usual, both get really grumpy!


Above story was written based on REAL-LIFE -STORY provided by me SARA SIA!!!!!
A very good reference for couples who thinking of Marriage!

THINK TRIPLE!!!!!

婚礼不是婚姻! 可以将婚礼办的得体，妥当不等同于婚姻的经营。

我在我姐的婚礼过程就学会繁文缛节是多么的让人头痛，根本是在考验一对新人嘛！好在我老公还很坚定的把婚结完....有时真的会把结婚的最终目的给混淆

就由拍拖开始说起，一切都好好的，就是因为太好而被催婚！以前无论他做什么都顺眼，每句话都觉得有道理，非常合拍，好吧！既然长辈都催促，就顺下他们的意。

结果殊不知。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
有太多的考量，顾虑。。。



和人相处是最难的吧， 老公就说还会迁就下，换是附加的人就很难忍咯！其实都是生活细节。所以“试婚”非常重要。



原来单纯的要两个人在一起是非常艰辛的一条路，好几次我都想要放弃尤其是在这条路上多了其他人的加入，原本简单两人的事变成三个人的事，原本的容量必须包容更多的事！而且老公会把期望调高，是很高，很高！！！



不是秉持“老来从子，传宗接代”的说，说什么都要等等等等！！！！！

我开始有压力！下个月就要拍婚纱照，体重还依然，不过这些都不是重点而是钱呀！很烦！

我确实是个不会隐藏喜怒的人，今天我忍不住把卖给贝的生日礼物送给了他！

在和他在一起的第三个年头，我终于买也一样稍微有收藏价值的礼物给他。。。手表。
千挑万选了一个在我预算，又符合我心意的。。。

一切发生的非常随性，没有机关算尽，没有排场，就在他买戏票同时，碰巧我放了订金的手表行就在楼下。我把他支开买戏票，我就取了手表，刚好他又想到去新开的咖啡座吃点东西，我再用电话落在车里要他帮我拿，就将礼物摆在桌上。。。


他非常惊讶的问我那盒子装了什么。。因为他看不懂盒子上的logo。。。哈哈哈，一打开就流露出这个表情








很可爱hor?


然后把它戴上。。。




贝， 生日快乐

Its been really hard to organise a wedding especially when you're on budget, opps, soorry it's on TIGHT budget!

At the very beginning, I was thinking the venue to hold ceremony, churches was excluded definitely, and I was thinking of doing it at poolside(spending), so that's mean i need to get florist to set up the place (another spending). Then it comes to bridal shop, this would be the hardest part of all. Hubby & I went to a bridal exhibition last week, the 1st stop i went is Picaso from KL, and the photo shooting was facinating, and we LOVED it so much. Until the last day of the exhibition we met this bridal shop call Ivory Romance from JB. The style they bring out was so strong and really fit to our taste, the background and effect was so different from any others. This is the reason why it took weeks to decide which one to go, and yet, no result! *This is when couples get foughts the most*

Mrs Chieng

今天算是我大喜之日，我已正式成为詹太太！！！就在今天！！

在今天之前，我以为我会在宣誓当下流泪而设计了许多的搞笑画面让我在读宣誓词时派上用场；不过我并没自己所料的一般感性而流泪，只是在宣誓时不断的挥舞我的右手，哈哈哈哈。。
我的证婚人事后问说：你为何要挥动右手？
我的家婆回他说 ：因为她是教钢琴的，是职业病

====哄堂大笑====
不可否认我很紧张，心跳加速，肚子绞痛。。。。可是原来有人比我还要紧张那人是=====詹子庆！！！
我确确实实听见他的声音在颤抖！！哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈

Important Dates to remeber

经过一番讨论后，我和贝初步定于认识的第三年2009-01-13 （一生）签字结婚；而在第四年2010-01-14（一世）摆酒，将我们的喜事“共诸于世”。

婚姻真不得儿戏！！！

两人拍拖时已经费尽心思讨好，迁就，才能走到婚姻这一步。可是“结婚”的“烦”锁礼节真不得叫人吃不消！！婚姻已经再是两个人相爱而要在一起生活的事了！就谈结婚吧 -- 这是牵涉不止两个家庭的事，还有三姑六婆，姨妈亲家舅，八叔婆，九叔公。。。。。。。都要共襄盛举！！人多是非多，就是为什么亲家会变冤家咯！

这次我二姐的婚礼我可真就忙得不亦乐乎！最累人的是男方是古晋人；而我们则在民都鲁摆酒，长途跋涉更是让我喊累！！有史以来最早的接新娘凌晨5地点，2：30am 就得化装准备，真的苦不堪言！新郎哥接新娘事也不罗嗦，非常配合姐妹们的游戏，不过还是有回味的部分的啦。。。

接新娘咯～～～


yoga都来了。。哈哈哈


各种伺候！！


抢中花球


全家福有在增加的迹象哟～～

Tiffany & Co

Here's my engagment presents from Anna hii

结婚--Wedding

心情时好时坏的很烦！工作很烦，骑虎难下的给人家摆了一道！不过君子报仇十年未晚。先post些开心的。同学婚礼

女生不过就是爱拍照

大合照

看到朋友一个个披嫁衣，作人妇，相夫教子，我也难免有些冲动所以已经在物色心水的婚纱店也试了几套

结婚

结了婚的女人，照顾孩子责无旁贷；男人在这时候要扮演什么角色呢？所谓贫贱夫妻百事唉，真是不由得你要透口气，或是要争取空间的时候！如果自己的丈夫整天讨着要呼吸自由的空气，我是否该断定他是个不够尽责的老公或爸爸？丈夫为了讨生活日忙夜也忙的，仅剩余的时间相娱乐下自己是否过份？答案：要懂得分轻重，生活本来就是人不由己更何况是一个家庭？？？人在情况逼迫时列如：奉子成婚，适婚年龄，被逼婚等等都踏上婚姻。 殊不知，婚姻不是只要有无限的爱和包容就可以成立的。 柴-米-油-盐-酱-醋-茶叻？这是比爱和包容来的现实和实际的考量范围。再者，家庭背景，个性问题，七年之痒你做了防范措施了没？爱玩老婆遇上顾家先生该怎么办？达到共同教育孩子方式了没？该用爱的教育；还是打是爱的用心良苦？婆媳间的纠纷呢？这可不是掉进海里先救谁的问题，不过，我很清晰的知道没问题的生活才是大问题！想太多会让人有不婚的念头，不够准备会赔上一生幸福，得不到快乐的人最可悲呀！男人呀男人！耶稣说：我是你的骨中骨，肉中肉，我是用你得肋骨所造的。你应当爱惜女人，视她为中心，服侍她如皇后，不得有任何怨言！哈哈哈哈哈 后段是我加的。